Here’s a scene to kickoff your domination desires. In this scene you will reinforce your role as his Mistress and your control over your slave. You want to have everything set up before your slave arrives.

 1. Start by setting the mood with candles, incense, and music. You will want his body accessible, but the sub unable to move; leather restraints work well for this. You may want to experiement with leather ankle and wrist restraints, and thigh restrtaints.

 2. Have your sub wear nothing at all. You will want to look stunning in something a bit revealing, but not too much. Leave something to for the imagination.

3. Using cock rings or a cock and ball harness is a good way to keep your sub in check. The slave will feel some pleasure but there will be frustration involved because it will be more difficult for him to get off.

4. DO NOT allow your slave to see the restraints or C&B devices. Lead him in, on a leash and undressed if you like. Get him excited by kissing him and touching him, whatever you want. Build him up let the sexual tension grow then spring your trap.

5. Slowly and methodically put your slave in the restrtaints. Give your slave a little more attention when he’s in the restraints then apply the cock ring or cock and ball harness. You are now in control.

6. Always ask your slave these questions when you are in control:

What is my name? (Accept nothing other than your Dominatrix name. Punish him if he gets it wrong).

Who do you belong to?

What is the safe word?

7.  Pleasure him. Bring him to the brink then back off. Tell him he is not allowed to cum unless you say so. Remind him that he is your lowly slave and cannot control himself. Let him know the consequences if he doesn’t obey. Humiliate him thoroughly, spank him, slap him do whatever you wish.

8. When your slave cannot stand it any longer and his body takes over finish him off with your hands. Let him know that you are in control and show him what a mess he’s made.

9. He’s been disobedient so he must be punished. Of course he enjoyed it, but this is about humiliation. Take his weak pathetic prick and give him a rough post-orgasm milking or leave him tied up for a bit.

10. Remind him that he’s a bad boy and there will be more punishment for him during the next visit!

It seems to get worse with each passing day.  It seems as if this guy is really getting over on folks. Bernard Madoff who swindled more than $50 billion in an elaborate Ponzi scheme is on house arrest in his multi-million dollar mansion . He has money stashed away protected under family member’s names. I saw a once-rich soccer Mom on tv who said she invested with Madoff and now is surviving off of food stamps. Amazingly she said she didn’t hate the man, she just wanted justice.

To add insult to injury Maddoff is still trying to make off with more money. Madoff and his attorneys are now trying to keep $62 million in assests and a multi million dollar penthouse from being siezed. So far $950 million in cash and assets has been recovered for investors. That’s a small dent for those who have lost everything – they have about $49 billion to go.

Aaralyn demands justice from this poor cock.

A recent study commissioned by Intel reveals that nearly half of the women surveyed were willing to go without sex for two weeks rather than give up Internet access. Only 30 percent of men were willing to choose abstinence over sex for their Internet access. The purpose of the study was to determine American’s reliance on the internet in the current economy.

Rachel Steele demands both her internet and sex, or this poor prick will pay the price!

BigAssTease.com features girls shaking their asses to music. You will see asses of various shapes and sizes. Some are oiled up while others are sporting a thong. No matter the attire these big butts are guaranteed to be nicely shaped and enthusiastically wiggling for your pleasure.

I hope you are having a wonderful holiday season. This is the perfect time of year to cuddle up with someone special and watch some skin flicks. There’s nothing better than getting warm by working up a sweat in the sheets.

Ellie Glam has some gloryhole fun for the holidays

According to the Sinclair Institute’s Annual Sexual Health Survey, the sex lives of many Americans leave a lot to be desired:

70% feel that they do not have a totally fulfilling sex life
More than 37% have sex less than 12 times a year.
More than 60% say that their sex lives would benefit from trying something new. For example: videos, toys, more frequency
50% say being a better lover would affect other parts of their relationship
80% engage in some form of foreplay
40% use videos, sex toys or adult books to enhance sex
40% of respondents who have never watched a sex education video would consider buying one

The good news: now is the time for New Years’ Resolutions. Why not add some spice to your sex life? Tell your girl/boy toy something naughty. A secret fantasy or fetish or two. Buy some sex toys and test them out. Watch some porn together, then discuss it. If you’re still turned on try some mutual masturbation.

At the very least, continue to read my blog. You’re bound to find something that interests you and yours. And if there’s a topic I haven’t explored feel free to send me your ideas (via the comments box).

Here’s to a sexy and scintillating new year!

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To all of the members and fans of Hand Domination:

Guys and girls the last 2 weeks (Oct 30 - Nov 12) have been a nightmare in terms of how our shoots have gone. You might be wondering why there have been no updates. Running an Adult Website is fun but NOT easy. It has always been our goal to update Hand Domination every Monday with brand NEW quality handjob content. We strive to use AMATEUR males and females to provide a unique experience each time you login into the members area. Just like eating the same food over and over gets old, seeing the same girls on each site does too. Amateurs provide a genuine “feel” to the content.  The downside of working with amateur talent is the lights and camera can cause MAJOR stage freight. Soft cocks, 2 second cumshots, and girls who live with their parents are HANDJOB KILLERS. You might think we have been sitting on our ASS for 2 weeks. Nothing could be further from the truth. 378 miles of travel, $178.67 cents worth of hotels fees, 14 hours worth of filming, and not a DAMN thing to show for it! Frustrated would be an understatement!

We will NEVER sacrifice the quality of our handjob movies. During this period of frustration we have made improvements to our methods of finding talent and feel confident that our system will eliminate a talent shortage

We have just finished shooting some AMAZING content that will be posted (this Monday) starting November 19. To all our loyal members and fans thank you for your patience and understanding. Sometimes you have to take a step backward before you can move forward. Trust me the wait will be worth it!

Here are the 3 shoots that went terribly wrong:

Cameron - this girl looks normal, but she’s NOT. When the camera was rolling she would twitch and jerk uncontrollably. Some really bizarre stuff. Not to mention she looked like she would rather walk on broken glass than stroke a cock. Narcoleptic? Probably.

Limp dick David - David could not keep his cock hard when the cameras were rolling. It took 2 days to shoot a handjob scene … unheard of. Both days he came on himself prematurely.

TJ - TJ could not keep his cock hard. He was so embarrassed and ashamed. He said he had some Viagra in his car. He went to his car and was never heard from again.

You’ve probably noticed the Bonus page. Until now it’s been pretty bare with just “coming soon” to describe it. If you meander over to the Bonus page now you’ll see something a bit different: new handjob videos of sexy girls jerking off guys until they cum. You’ll catch some amateur girls doing all sorts of things to get off. Now the bonus page contains hot new videos of a variety of genres (handjobs, CFNM, amateur, ass worship and more) for  Hand Domination members.