Also known as squirting and gushing, female ejaculation occurs when copious amounts of fluid is secreted from a woman’s genitals during orgasm. The source of the fluid and how a female ejaculates (what anatomical structures are involved) is highly debated among scientists and sexologists. Usually, a woman will achieve orgasm and ejaculate via the stimulation of her clitoris, and urethral sponge (also called the G-spot). Some women come in large amounts while many women ejaculate about a teaspoon of fluid. The idea that a woman is urinating during ejaculation is a common myth. Female ejaculation is fluid not produced by the urethra (it’s not urine). Science has discovered that this fluid is completely different altogether. The fluid produced by female ejaculation has been shown to be similar to the fluid produced by the male prostate gland and contains the same biochemical markers of sexual function.

Discussion of female ejaculation dates back to the Greek and Roman era, from the Greek philosopher Aristotle to the Roman physician Galen.

When a woman ejaculates she has a strong feeling that she has to urinate. This lasts for a few seconds, then changes to a feeling of sexual enjoyment. Many women hold back their sexual response during sex to avoid squirting on their partners. This most likely explains why many women (as much as 25% of American women) never have orgasms; they have trained themselves to avoid the embarrassing wetness of “urinating” during sex.

The shame and embarrassment that surrounds female ejaculation has prevented many women from achieving good sex. A simple fix is for her to play and enjoy her sexual response more. Here are a few tips:

Take time to get aroused
You should masturbate as normal. Look at some porn or a smut magazine. Think about a fantasy and get in the mood. If this works, you should cum again and again. Explore reaching multiple orgasms.
Use your fingers
Explore your vaginal canal and take time to explore how it feels the textures and all. If you’ve never done this, it’s going to be a nice ride.
Explore the front wall of the vaginal canal
This might feel sensitive and uncomfortable at first. Place your fingers an inch or two inside and feel along the wall. It will feel bumpy and rough compared to the rest of your vagina. You might have the urge to pee when you push on it. Push harder to feel your pubic bone. If you can hook your finger behind this area, you’ve found your G-spot!
Play with toys
You can stimulate your clit directly with a vibrator or dildo. Try playing with different toys to see what works for you.
Empty your bladder first
Since ejaculating feels like the urge to pee, empty your bladder then play with your G-spot.
Prepare before you play
If the thought of gushing still freaks you out, place a towel or two in bed. Or take it to the bathtub, you will already be wet!
Play with your clit
Try a vibrator on your clit or a curved dildo. Your partner’s tongue will do nicely too.

Chelcie Monroe enjoys masturbating with her fingers and toys.

A recent poll by an online smut magazine reveals that most people have a fetish or two. Here are the results of the top 10 fetishes of 2008:

10) Stomachs
Whether it’s flat as a board or a little flabby, some men get off on seeing a woman’s sexy middle.

9) Body Piercing
Pierced bellybuttons, nipples, tongues, genitals, and any other body part you can imagine. This fetish is more popular amongst 18 - 35 year olds.

Latex, Leather, Rubber, and Vinyl
Some guys are really into tactile materials.

7) Female Domination
Everything a man enjoys doing to a woman he probably enjoys being done to him. Many men enjoy being submissive. Lots of women get off treating a man like a slave.

6) Feet and Hands
Some men are very particular about a woman’s feet. Some guys can’t get off without caressing, sniffing, licking a girl’s feet. And conversely, someone really enjoy sucking on a man’s finger (the act mimics sucking a penis).

5) Lipstick
Smudged lipstick. Red lipstick and red fingernails.

4) Hair
Ponytails. Pigtails. Braids. Extremely long hair. Different colors of hair. The possibilities are endless.

3) Water
A lot of people enjoy having sex during a rain storm, when the shower is on or to the sound of running water. Some even like the sound of thunder and lightning.

2) Golden Showers (aka Waterworks)
A very popular and ever more prevalent fetish. Some guys like to see women pee. Other guys want to urinate on someone as foreplay before sex. Not your thing? Then let’s move on to the next one.

1) Exhibitionism and Voyeurism
The most popular fetish by far. Some people can’t have sex unless they are watching someone else have sex too. It can be as simple as fucking while watching porn or watching another couple.

Yevonne Yvette shows off her taut tummy and belly ring.