The prostate gland is about the size of a walnut or unopened condom and sits just below the bladder. The prostate gland makes up to 30% of a man’s ejaculatory fluid (the remaining makeup of semen is spermatozoa and seminal fluid secreted by the seminal vesicles). For many men the prostate gland is a sex organ that when stimulated can provide immense sexual pleasure.

Some men can get off by manipulation of their prostate alone. It’s believed that a “prostate orgasm” is a longer, stronger and more continuous form of male orgasm. Exploring the male G spot is the key to experiencing other pleasures not just limited to the penis. If you are a bit uneasy about exploring your prostate you can still stimulate the prostate without penetration. You may want to try a prostate massage with your partner or prostate masturbation by yourself.

How to Find Your Male G Spot

1. Get comfy and take a nice hot shower. Many men are concerned about cleanliness and anal play. To alleviate this anxiety take a hot shower or bath. Also, make sure you go to the bathroom before you wash up if you are concerned you might have a bowel movement during anal play.
2. Groom your nails. Trim your nails and file the edges down until they are smooth. Make sure there are no sharp edges when you’re playing with toys. The last thing you want is to tear the sensitive lining of the anus (ouch!). You can also use latex gloves (not if you’re allergic of course) to protect your anus.
3. Get turned on and get comfy. Getting aroused makes it easier to find the G spot. So watch a flick, look at a smut magazine, let your partner stimulate you a bit, masturbate, etc. Experiment with positions and use pillows to find a position that works for you (lying on your side, sitting in a chair, lying on your back with feet in the air).
4. Massage your anus and perineum. Start with external stimulation. Never rush the penetration part of anal play. Start with massaging the perineum which is located between the anus and the testicles, you will find this relaxing. Gently rub the anus in a circular motion. Relax the anal sphincter by gently pushing on the anus.
5. Breathe and go on in. Breathing is important. Gently place a finger tip (well lubed of course) into the opening of the anus and exhale while you push out (like when you are going to the bathroom). Relax and hold a bit while you get used to this sensation.
6. Now find your G spot. The prostate sits below your bladder and is about two inches in toward your stomach. Some people can find it immediately and for others it takes more time. It’s much easier to have your partner do it for you.
7. Experiment
   Now that you’ve found your G spot try experimenting with different sensations. Some people like vibration others like to alternate between light and hard touch. Try contracting and squeezing your PC muscle for a different feel.
8. Toys!
   Anal toys are a great way to explore prostate stimulation. Some men like vibrators and some like toys with a slight curve. Everyone is different so take your time and try lots of toys. Butt plugs are popular in anal play. You can leave them in and have fun with your partner or leave it in and masturbate.

Alexis Anderson massages the testicles and perineum while she dominates this defenseless cock.